Fertility Awareness Week: making room for life beyond fertility
Fertility Awareness Week is an important time to acknowledge the experiences of people trying to conceive and living with infertility. The road to parenthood can be long and emotionally challenging, filled with waiting, appointments, decisions and uncertainty.
WHO estimates that around one in six people of reproductive age worldwide experience infertility in their lifetime. Behind that statistic are individual lives that can easily begin to feel organised around fertility alone.
Why mental wellbeing matters on the fertility journey
Anxiety, sadness, frustration, jealousy, grief and isolation can all sit alongside fertility treatment or trying to conceive. Those feelings do not mean you are coping badly.
A hobby is not a treatment for infertility or a substitute for professional mental-health support. What it can offer is somewhere else for your attention to go: time that belongs to you rather than to test results, cycle dates or appointments.
The power of hobbies and passions
1. A healthy distraction
Painting, gardening, knitting, gaming, hiking or another interest can create a genuine “time out” from constantly thinking about fertility.
2. A way to reconnect with yourself
Infertility can start to feel like an identity. An interest that has nothing to do with conception can remind you of the parts of yourself that exist alongside it.
3. Moments of relief
Enjoyable activities can help some people feel calmer or more absorbed in the present. We do not need to promise that a hobby will lower cortisol or “boost endorphins” for it to be worthwhile.
4. Social connection
Book clubs, classes, sports, volunteering or creative groups can offer connection where fertility is not the centre of every conversation.
5. A sense of progress
Learning a skill, finishing a project or simply practising regularly can provide a form of progress during a journey that often involves waiting.
6. Purpose beyond a treatment calendar
A passion can add shape and meaning to a week without asking you to pretend the fertility struggle is not there.
Ideas for hobbies that support your wellbeing
- Creative outlets: painting, drawing, crafting, photography or music.
- Gardening: time outdoors and a practical project that changes gradually.
- Cooking or baking: experiment, learn and make something you can share.
- Yoga, walking or other movement: choose an activity that feels good and is appropriate for any treatment you are having.
- Reading or writing: escape into a book or use journalling to process thoughts privately.
- Community involvement: volunteering or joining a local group can create connection outside fertility spaces.
Keeping a hobby low pressure
- Start small. Ten minutes counts.
- Do not turn it into another performance target. You are allowed to be a beginner.
- Schedule time if that helps, but stay flexible.
- Try something else if you are not enjoying it. A hobby should not become another thing you feel you are failing at.
When distraction is not enough
There may be times when hobbies do not touch the depth of what you are feeling. Fertility counselling, your clinic, your GP or specialist support organisations can provide more targeted help.
You do not need to stay endlessly positive. The goal is to make enough room for yourself that fertility is part of your life rather than the only thing in it.
Final thoughts
During Fertility Awareness Week, we honour the people living through infertility and fertility treatment, and the emotional weight that can come with both.
Making time for a passion will not change a diagnosis. It can, however, protect a little space for curiosity, connection, enjoyment and identity while you navigate whatever comes next.







